Hello all. So much has happened in the past several months, that if you don't know me, I can't begin to tell you...it's just way too much. Suffice to say, my journey to Tao has been accelerated and enriched wholly and openly the entire way. As roadblocks appeared, detours and reroutes had already been put in place. God, Allah, Jehovah, Tao, has made sure that my family and I are taken care of every step of the way. Experiencing life from a completely different perspective, not just looking at it differently, but actually making the necessary changes to enact change, is what I needed to learn. The Tao saw to it that I did.
Happy to say that I have been experimenting with some new tinctures and potions and hope to have some new results out to all of you soon. My all natural insect repellent worked beyond my expectations in some pretty thick mosquito population. Granted we did not pass through unharmed, but we did not itch and there were 80-90% less bites than would have been.
I'm just going to give you all some tidbits of things happening and new things I've been thinking about as well as studying. Here are a few of my thoughts for making things around me better. Turn the water on and then reduce the flow by half. Do this a few times while you wash your hands and time yourself while you do it. Now turn the water on the way you are used to doing and begin to fill up a gallon jug. Time how long you fill it up, matching it to the amount of time you used to wash your hands for. How much did you fill up? See how much water you could be saving with that one simple step? Now imagine that you take the time to not only reduce the consumption in half just by adjusting the flow, but go one step further and shut the water off while you soap up. Turn it back on when you are ready and imagine how much more water you just saved. Better yet, fill a gallon jug while you are soaping up and SEE how much water you will be saving.
As my wife and I have been journeying together during these difficult times, I was looking at our relationship and thinking to myself about all the little things that go on in a marriage that each spouse takes for granted. As I pondered all the ways my wife takes care of me and my boys and the intricacies of each of our special relationships with her, it became increasingly clear to me that what she can do, I cannot or choose not to. This thought made several circles in my head through many different scenarios and after I loathed some and completely disregarded others, I settled on one thing: Her strengths are my weaknesses, and my strengths are her weaknesses. From a Taoist perspective, this is a perfect example of Yin Yang. Females are Yin, males are Yang. Within Yin there is Yang, within Yang there is Yin. The Yin Yang symbol is the exact portrayal of this very relationship and infintely more. With this I made peace with my thoughts and placed them on my "reference shelf" for future perusing.
Something else appeared recently while I watched my boys playing one day. They were throwing things around and one of their toys flew out of sight. From my vantage point I could see exactly where it had absconded itself to. My youngest asked me where it was. I told him to look around. He knew the general direction of where it had flown and so began his search in the vicinity. He was not successful and as he continued his hunt, his "nose" began to lead him towards where the toy had actually landed. Just as he was about to round a corner and find his reward, big brother came along and began his own search in the area previously scoured by the little one. The distraction was just enough that it didn't take him off task, but it did lengthen the time it would have taken.
How many times in our daily lives do we allow someone else to "take" our time from us? How often do we sacrifice our own rewards so that we can experience companionship? On the flip side, how many times have you "taken" someone else's time? Or allowed yourself to receive a gift of friendship when someone offers their time to you? My grandmother passed around an email to her family and friends recently. It told a story with the lesson, "Thank you for your time."
Thank you for your time.
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